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REAL MARRAIGE ISN'T ALWAYS ROMANTIC. BUT IT CAN BE DEEPLY CONNECTED, JOYFUL AND WORTH FIGHTING FOR.

Progress, not perfection. Small habits. Big joy. We're still becoming.

Life in Tandem Membership

Stop feeling like roommates. Start finding your way back to love.

The Life in Tandem membership helps real couples reconnect through small, doable challenges — no perfection required, just progress.

Why join?

We’re not therapists. We’re just two people — married 24 years, parents of teens — who hit a wall and decided to build our way back, one small habit at a time.

Join us and see what’s possible when you show up together.

* Founding Member Rate:

$7/month — limited to the first 50 couples

About the Founders

We’re Pete and Emily.

Married for almost 24 years, parents of four, and partners in life, business, and rebuilding what we almost lost.

A few years into raising teenagers, we realized we were living more like roommates than teammates. The distance wasn’t dramatic—it was slow, quiet, and easy to ignore. But eventually, it became impossible not to feel.

So we decided to do something about it.

That decision turned into Life in Tandem: a series of small, intentional monthly challenges to help us reconnect—and help others do the same.

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How It Works

Every month, we launch a new 30-day challenge focused on one area of life and marriage, like:

  • Reigniting intimacy (without awkwardness)

  • Relearning how to talk (and really listen)

  • Managing money together

  • Raising teens without losing your mind or each other

  • Having fun again

Each challenge includes:

âś… A printable habit tracker âś… Weekly podcast episodes (Tandem Talks) âś… Encouraging email check-ins âś… Real stories from other couples âś…A Facebook Community to share with

Let's get connected

The Blog

A little peek into the challenge fun, the fails, and the “Wait, that actually worked?” moments from real couples like you.

Tandem Talks

Our podcast interviewing real couples that have overcome real struggles. Get access when you join our challenges.

30 - Day Challenge Membership

Join us now...let's stay married!

Learn more through our newsletter before you commit

JOIN OUR EMAIL LIST

Not ready to join our challenges just yet? That’s okay. Start here.
Sign up for our mailing list and get:

  • Sneak peeks of upcoming 30-day challenges

  • Free printables and habit ideas

  • Real-talk emails with encouragement and tools you can actually use

  • Tips & tricks for reconnecting without pressure

  • Early access to promotions, live events, and more

This is the best way to dip your toe in, stay inspired, and see if Life in Tandem is for you.

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CHECK OUT OUR CHALLENGE PLANS

You can browse our upcoming challenge topics and see if any hit home. If one (or five) sound like something your marriage could use, we’d love to have you along for the ride.